Everybody knows about Asian mail order brides’ extraordinary beauty. Indian ladies are not the exception.
Albeit the population of this South-Central Asian country is more than 1.3 billion, it’s not the most popular mail-bride country. The bad news is that only a few tens of thousands of women here are searching for a foreign husband. The good news is that there are still lots of hot, single, and very sexy Indian girls for marriage — and you can start chatting with them right here in one click.
But before you start, you need to know these gorgeous ladies better. We’ll gladly help you with that — we will tell you why these women search for a foreign husband, explain how to find a good Indian mail order brides service, and we’ll also talk about some popular stereotypes. Let’s begin!
Why do they become international brides?
The majority of Indian women for marriage sign up on international dating sites because of two main reasons — they want to live in a better country, and they think that American men are much better than Indian men. Let’s be more detailed.
Alright, India is surely not the worst country in the world. It’s a democratic country, with a constitution that acknowledges all the diversities and protects Indian citizens. However, there are still lots of problems here.
Illiteracy, poor education, bad healthcare system, pollution, even basic hygiene problems — unfortunately, this country isn’t perfect. These women understand it, and it’s quite obvious that they don’t want to raise their kids in such a country. That’s why they do their best to leave India — and the United States, which is a very popular immigration destination for Indians, looks like a perfect choice. But don’t confuse the desire to have a better life with a desire to get a green card — just read about the next reason and you’ll see it with your own eyes.
Indian girls think that American men are much more loving, caring, and respectful than the guys from India. They are not that far from reality, actually — the situation with domestic violence, abuse, and exploitation is much better in the United States. Unfortunately, lots of men in India still consider ladies as second class citizens — and of course, this problem doesn’t exist in the United States (at least not on that scale).
Top dating tips
So, if you are going to find an Indian wife online, here’s what you should know: this is not that easy. Here you’ll find 3 useful tips that will definitely help you!
- Don’t hug or kiss her on the very first date, especially if you’re walking in public. The point is, public display of affection is not acceptable in this country — kissing and hugging is not a big deal for the majority of Indians, but some still may consider it a big issue. These women are very emotional and passionate, but only behind closed doors.
- Respect Indian culture, tradition, and history. It’s very general advice, but it’s very relevant when it comes to India. The thing is, Indian women for marriage love and respect their country, so if you show them that you share this feeling, you will be rewarded.
- Buy a small gift. You don’t have to buy something very expensive, no — but if you buy her a gift, she’ll appreciate the effort, not the price.
P.S. They are not aliens. Yes, these women are different from the ones you’ve probably met in everyday life, but you don’t have to invent the wheel — just be a nice and smart guy, try to charm her, make jokes, and be nice. Don’t fetishize them — Indian women are first and foremost women, so everything is easy here. The chances of them wanting to talk about Buddhism are the same as you seeing a Russian girl and having a conversation about the history of the Eastern Orthodox Church, or seeing a Colombian girl and talking about the Incan Empire with her. You’ve got the idea.
Tips to find the best Indian women dating service
Want to find an Indian wife online? You’ll have to find a good bride service first. These 3 tips will help you to distinguish a good site from a bad one.
- Ensure the site is safe. You will have to check the reputation of the website and of course, find the real reviews. It’s also very important to check the SSL encryption of the service.
- Then, you will have to ensure that there are no fake profiles on this site. Good dating services have an ID verification — in short, it means that it’s impossible to create a fake female profile on such sites. If there is an ID verification, there are no scammers on this site.
- Check everything else. The previous things were extremely important because if a dating service isn’t safe or if it has lots of scammers, it’s just not worth your time and money. Customer support, video chat, the number of messaging tools and search options — all these things are not vital but they are very important, too. Lots of dating sites are paid, but some of them offer free credits or a free trial, so if you do good research, you’ll be able to test all these features for free.
Myths and stereotypes
Unfortunately, there are still some stereotypes about modern Indian brides. Let’s talk about the three most popular ones.
The first one sounds like this: These women do only want to get a green card. It’s a 100% false stereotype. Yes, as we’ve said, there are lots of problems in India, so it’s quite logical that these women want to live in another country. But, it’s certainly not the only reason for them to search for a man from the United States — according to our experience and to thousands of success stories, they are really looking for love, not for American citizenship.
The second one is: These women are too conservative. Well, yeah, they were too conservative 20-30 years ago, but they are not the same anymore. Not, thanks to the effects of westernization, American culture and values are not totally shocking to young women of this country anymore.
The last stereotype is: There are lots of fake Indian female profiles and scammers on dating sites. To be honest, there are some romance scammers there, but there are also some romance scammers in any other country. Just choose a dating site with an ID verification and you’ll forget about this problem.
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